Est. 2025 · New York City · Members Only
An exclusive membership community for those who live, love, and connect beyond convention.
Unlock exclusive perks — your membership lives in the app
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Who We Are
Like the tiger: powerful, selective, and impossible to ignore. Paco Revolution is a sanctuary for those who love without limits and live without apology.
Paco Revolution is not a dating app. It's a living, breathing community, built for those who embrace polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, and every constellation in between.
We believe in radical inclusivity. All genders, all orientations, all relationship structures. Singles, couples, throuples, and everyone who doesn't fit a label.
What we don't believe in: judgment, gatekeeping, or settling. Membership is earned. Events are curated. The experience is yours.
This is not a space for everyone. It's a space for people who are intentional about connection. Membership is curated, not mass-marketed. The people you meet here are here for the same reasons you are.
Polyamorous, swinger, queer, ENM-curious, kinky, vanilla, your lifestyle is welcome here. We build spaces where every configuration of love and connection is not just tolerated, but celebrated.
Champagne socials at Flûte. Mansion parties at Dery House. IRL events engineered for actual connection. The app is the map. The events are the destination.
Private mansion. 100 couples. Black card entry. Five times a year: NYE, Valentine's Day, Memorial Day, July 4th, Halloween. This is where Paco members come home.
Monthly gatherings at Flûte, NYC's iconic champagne bar. 100 capacity. Good people. Great bubbles. The perfect first step into the Paco orbit.
Private transport from Flûte to the mansion and back. Because the journey is part of the experience.
Available on iOS and Android. Manage your membership, RSVP to events, access your QR code for check-in, and connect with the Paco community, all in one place.
Questions about membership, events, or partnerships? We'd love to hear from you.